BPB Counseling Group in Boston, Massachusetts provides Individual & Couples Therapy for Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behavior. Blair typically works with the primary client while Couples expert, Jess Benedetto, provides therapy for betrayed partners. Group and Intensive Therapy are also provided for both clients and betrayed partners.
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Membership includes:
The Sustainable Sexual Integrity Online Course: an 8-hour self-paced video curriculum course, recorded with Blair walking through the 14-session curriculum and all associated homework & assessments
The Sexual Integrity Workbook Boot Camp, where participants meet weekly to move chapter by chapter through the core framework together.
Unlimited access to all homework exercises and graphics
Weekly live Q&A with Blair answering community questions, recorded for those who can’t attend
Daily check-ins
Discussion prompts moderated by Blair
Recommended books and tools
An exclusive video library, updated weekly
Progress tracking, revisit materials, and apply strategies in your own time.
Open Forums with daily, live feedback by Blair
Accountability partnerships
Members can create their own events, group meetings, and breakout discussions.
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Blair treats men working to understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior: porn addiction, sex addiction and infidelity.
Blair’s approach focuses on the person, not the “problem,” leveraging a solution-focused, empathic and empowering approach with a focus on achieving sustainable sexual integrity through identifying then meeting the underlying need.
Sessions can be scheduled directly online including same-day and evening options. Sessions are guided by a curated 14-item curriculum, and include homework to aid further development between sessions.
How to Schedule a Session: Appointments are available 6 days per week, including evening sessions. Simply click to schedule your first session, an initial consult, an in-person intensive or to join the Men’s Sexual Integrity Group.
Blair is a board-certified National Certified Counselor® (NCC) having successfully completed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), certification being awarded by the National Board for Certified Counselors. He is also a doctoral candidate pursuing his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology (concentration in sustainable sexual integrity in those meeting criteria for Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder), a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist candidate with the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals, he holds two Masters degrees (in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Health Administration), is a professor at two universities in Boston, is a an advisory board member at Suffolk University, former advisory board member at Harvard Medical School (Center for Primary Care), training under Dr. Paul Falconer, and member of both the American Counseling Association and International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals. Blair has authored 'The Sexual Integrity Workbook' and speaks nationally, most recently at the Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder conference in Nashville, TN on the topic of 'Artificial Intimacy and AI's Role in Problematic Sexual Behavior.' Jess treats individuals, couples and partners experiencing unhealthy patterns in a trauma-informed, empathic and solution oriented approach.
Jess works with couples and individuals impacted by betrayal, trust issues, and unhealthy patterns of behavior, particularly within their relationships.
Some of the challenges she sees include repeated infidelity, addiction, secrecy and lying, problematic sexual behavior such as sex and porn addiction, difficulty communicating openly and honestly, and unhealthy behaviors and mistrust resulting from past trauma. She helps her clients rebuild trust, open communication, and a healthier vision for their relationships and themselves, working toward relational and personal wellness and integrity.
Working from a humanistic and strengths-based lens, Jess employs an eclectic approach that is trauma- and neuroscience-informed, solutions-based, and draws from Acceptance and Commitment, Cognitive Behavioral, Narrative, and Psychodynamic therapies. Her clients explore their underlying needs, where unmet and unexpressed needs lead to problematic patterns, motivation to change those patterns, and core values, visions, and goals to guide them toward a more fulfilling future. As a certified yoga instructor and outdoor enthusiast, Jess also loves to bring movement and mindfulness into her work.
Jess holds an MA in Mental Health Counseling and Behavioral Medicine from Boston University School of Medicine, has passed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), and is a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher. She comes to the psychotherapy field after a rewarding career as an organizational consultant. Her experience helping non-profit leaders identify needs and collaborate on shared visions, values, and goals has been instrumental in her work as a therapist.
Join the LIVE Bootcamp in January 2026
Sign up for the Sexual Integrity Bootcamp, kicking off Friday January 9th for members of the private Circle Community, which can be joined by clicking the button below!
The Bootcamp will be 14 weekly LIVE group sessions where Blair will moderate a discussion with members on each of the 14 chapter topics and reviewing over 30 tools to utilize in one’s path towards sustainable sexual sobriety.
Services…
Couples Therapy
Couples therapy is available with our couples expert, Jess. Jess works with couples to help them understand, repair and heal from betrayal and rebuild trust.
In-Person Intensive
Offered for individuals & couples. Accelerate your work while charting a sustainable path forward. Tailored, in-person intensives within Greater Boston. Half & Full-day options.
1:1 Therapy
Work 1:1 through a tailored 14-item curriculum to understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior. Partner therapy is available in working with Jess Benedetto.
Group Therapy
Find your community and break isolation as you strive towards sustainable sexual integrity.
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No-Show / Cancelation Policy: Refunds will not be issued for missed appointments or reschedules/cancelations within 24 hours of appointment time. Clients may cancel or reschedule an appointment anytime via the link in their appointment confirmation email, as long as they provide greater than 24-hour notice. If you miss or cancel an appointment with less than 24-hour notice, or fail to show up, you will be charged for the full session. PRIVACY: We will never share your data with anyone.Book with Jess
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Meet the Team…
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Couples Therapist
Jess collaborates with couples and individual partners who have been impacted by problematic sexual behavior, sex addiction, porn addiction, and repeated infidelity and betrayal.
She helps her clients rebuild trust and a healthier vision for their partnership and themselves, working toward sexual, relational, and personal wellness and integrity. Working from a humanistic and strengths-based lens, Jess employs an eclectic approach that is trauma- and neuroscience-informed and draws from Acceptance and Commitment, Cognitive Behavioral, Narrative, and Psychodynamic therapies. As a certified yoga instructor and nature enthusiast Jess also loves to bring movement and mindfulness into her work to help her clients build healthier relationships with their bodies and minds. Her clients explore their underlying needs, where unmet and unexpressed needs lead to problematic behaviors, motivation to change those behaviors, and core values, visions, and goals to guide them toward a more fulfilling future.
Jess holds an MA in Mental Health Counseling and Behavioral Medicine from Boston University School of Medicine, has passed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), and is a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher with the National Yoga Alliance. She comes to the psychotherapy field after a rewarding career as an organizational consultant. Her experience helping non-profit leaders identify needs and collaborate on shared visions, values, and goals has been instrumental in her work with couples.
Our Locations
266 Main St., Suite 22R, Medfield, MA 02052
100 Main Street, 2nd Floor, Suite 18
Amesbury, MA 01913
Hours (EST)
Monday–Friday
9:00 AM – 11:00 PM
Saturday & Sunday by request.
Click here to read letters of wisdom written by men giving advice to themselves if they could go back to their first day in recovery from porn addiction, sex addiction, infidelity and other problematic sexual behaviors. Be inspired and take comfort in their words of seasoned wisdom.
“Hey man. Your worst fears will come true. And, believe it or not, it will be the best thing that ever happened to you... Go find what makes you happy, and not just what makes you numb the hurt.”
~RM
“...Shame is going to be your biggest adversary. You will come to recognize how it’s always been a comfortable disposition for you to sit in. Fight this with everything you have. Don’t focus on yourself, don’t be self-centered as you must focus on your wife and her hurt and what she needs. Shame will prevent you from doing this. Learn to engage with people again. Become a volunteer. Join a men’s therapy group. These efforts will help you feel less shameful...”
~LM
“It’s day 1 of realizing that you have a real problem that you can’t passively fix. You are scared, you are alone, you don’t want to believe that you have a problem, you don’t want to believe that porn/sex addiction is real, let alone something that could hook its claws into you and not let go. Most of all you do not want a single soul to find out what is going on with you. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you. Break isolation. Pick up the phone and call a friend. Your family and friends love you. Meet new people, trust me - get out there.
Tell someone what is going on with you, it can be anyone you trust. They will not oust you... move it out of your own head. Get a journal with good paper and a nice pen, and write ‘check-ins’ daily. Start the day off present... break free from your reliance on the phone. Get professional, 1:1 help. You don’t know what you don’t know, they will help you shape a recovery process for you.”
~PS
“You will learn that self-medicating with porn or working all the time were just ways to avoid your childhood. No one should be “taking care of themselves” from age 13 on. The people in your life left you... Porn was just a way to avoid the feelings. Keep getting help and using your tools to be grounded and to become a self-expert in your feelings. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you and yes…scare you… and also let you know that YOU GOT THIS.”
~BP
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