Blair P. Bisher is a Professor, Master’s level clinician with two masters degrees in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Health Administration, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist candidate, author and coach helping men understand and overcome problematic sexual behavior, most commonly porn addiction, sex addiction or repeated infidelity. He brings an empathic and empowering approach with a focus on achieving sustainable sexual integrity.
Sessions can be scheduled directly online including same-day, weekend and evenings options.
Sessions are guided by a curated 14-item curriculum, utilizing a Solution-Focused framework, and end with homework to continue the work and practice new skills and insights between sessions.
How to Schedule a Session: Appointments are available 6 days per week, including evening sessions. Simply click to schedule your first session, an initial consult, an in-person intensive or to join the Men’s Sexual Integrity Group.
More About Blair: Blair is currently a doctoral candidate pursuing his Ph.D. in Psychology with a focus on resilience and sustainable sexual integrity amongst those meeting criteria for problematic sexual behavior. He is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist candidate, holds two MS degrees (Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Health Administration), passed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), is a professor at two universities in Boston, is a former advisory board member at Harvard Medical School (Center for Primary Care), and member of both the American Counseling Association and International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals.
Services…
In-Person Intensive
Accelerate your work while charting a sustainable path forward. Tailored, in-person intensive within Greater Boston. Half & Full-day options.
1:1
Work 1:1 through a tailored curriculum to understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior.
Group
Find your community and break isolation as your strive towards sustainable sexual integrity.
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No-Show / Cancelation Policy: Refunds will not be issued for missed appointments or reschedules/cancelations within 24 hours of appointment time. Clients may cancel or reschedule an appointment anytime via the link in their appointment confirmation email, as long as they provide greater than 24-hour notice. If you miss or cancel an appointment with less than 24-hour notice, or fail to show up, you will be charged for the full session.
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Click here to read letters of wisdom written by men giving advice to themselves if they could go back to their first day in recovery from porn addiction, sex addiction, infidelity and other problematic sexual behaviors. Be inspired and take comfort in their words of seasoned wisdom.
“Hey man. Your worst fears will come true. And, believe it or not, it will be the best thing that ever happened to you... Go find what makes you happy, and not just what makes you numb the hurt.”
~RM
“...Shame is going to be your biggest adversary. You will come to recognize how it’s always been a comfortable disposition for you to sit in. Fight this with everything you have. Don’t focus on yourself, don’t be self-centered as you must focus on your wife and her hurt and what she needs. Shame will prevent you from doing this. Learn to engage with people again. Become a volunteer. Join a men’s therapy group. These efforts will help you feel less shameful...”
~LM
“It’s day 1 of realizing that you have a real problem that you can’t passively fix. You are scared, you are alone, you don’t want to believe that you have a problem, you don’t want to believe that porn/sex addiction is real, let alone something that could hook its claws into you and not let go. Most of all you do not want a single soul to find out what is going on with you. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you. Break isolation. Pick up the phone and call a friend. Your family and friends love you. Meet new people, trust me - get out there.
Tell someone what is going on with you, it can be anyone you trust. They will not oust you... move it out of your own head. Get a journal with good paper and a nice pen, and write ‘check-ins’ daily. Start the day off present... break free from your reliance on the phone. Get professional, 1:1 help. You don’t know what you don’t know, they will help you shape a recovery process for you.”
~PS
“You will learn that self-medicating with porn or working all the time were just ways to avoid your childhood. No one should be “taking care of themselves” from age 13 on. The people in your life left you... Porn was just a way to avoid the feelings. Keep getting help and using your tools to be grounded and to become a self-expert in your feelings. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you and yes…scare you… and also let you know that YOU GOT THIS.”
~BP
