“Why did I cheat on my wife?!” is the most common question I’m asked. We know that one-in-three husbands will cheat. Here, I’ll explore the complexities of infidelity including defining infidelity, the effects of infidelity, frequently held misconceptions, the underlying causes, techniques for combating it as well as looking at 3 research studies. I will attempt to dive deep into the subject and bring some clarity and answers to this difficult question, and others. Comprehending the causes of cheating behavior is a vital step in the healing and recovery process.